Jadoo Ki Jhappi ........ :)) (HUG)

It's so much easier to express anger than love.
The minute you see your child doing something out of line, you don't hesitate before telling him to stop in a firm voice, or before losing your temper.
We are always ready to shell out feelings of frustration and indignation but when it comes to looking at our loved ones and telling them how deeply we care, we draw a blank.
IF we hate someone, everyone knows it but if we love someone, we never dare to express our feeling. Sometime even the loved one doesn't knows about it.
In our relationships with spouse, children, siblings, friends we never express our feeling of love. We presume that they know I love them,
care about them so whats need of over reaction.


The simplest and the most powerful way to show ur love is HUG. Try to recollect the last time you hugged somebody or somebody hugged you. In all likelihood,
it was too long ago. Worse, the answer may be 'never' if you are the kind who flinches from physical contact. So what are we missing out on?

We need 4 hugs a day for survival. We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth

You may laugh off the predilection of the psychiatry community in the USA.. But "Touch is an important component of attachment as it creates bonds between two individuals

Hugging is also a part of Reiki, the currently popular touch therapy based on the transfer of energy. The area of touch is much larger in the case of hugging and the contact
is much more intimate, so the effects are subtler.
Indeed, many spiritual gurus, such as Mata Amritanandmayi, hug their disciples a lot, perhaps to pass on the divine energy

Reaching out and touching someone, and holding him tight—is a way of saying you care. Its effects are immediate: for both, the hugger and the person
being hugged, feel good. Hugging is healthy, for the body and the soul. Hugging is hygienic. Hugging won't give you AIDS and it won't increase
the population. It boosts self-esteem and brings about a sense of security in a way no word can. Hugging reaches inside and touches your soul.
The world may heal a bit if hugging increases, so do your bit. Get your body into action. Start hugging. That what Munnai Bhai wanted to teach by his
"c". So lets start from today only. Pyar baantey chalo………..

And always remember, the person who is the hardest to hug is usually the one who needs it the most

Who Invented "ctrl + Alt + Del"?

Person who invented "CTRL + ALT + DEL" key combination is "David Bradley".

He is the One who spent 1 minute and 23 seconds in writing the source code that rescues the world's PC users for decades.

This extraordinary IBM employee is retiring on Friday after a prolong service of 29 years. His formula forces obstinate computers to restart when they no longer follow other commands. By 1980, Bradley was one of 12 people working to create the debut. The engineers knew they had to design a simple way to restart the computer when it fails to respond the user -- Bradley wrote the code to make it work.

Bradley says. "I did a lot of other things than Ctrl-Alt-Delete, but I'm famous for that one."

His fame and success is achieved each time a PC user fails. He commented his relationship with Bill gates by saying:

" I may have invented it, but Bill gates made it famous by applying my formula when ever any Microsoft's Windows operating system made by him CRASHES, thus I win when ever he looses".

SWAMI VIVEKANANDA Contributions to World Culture & India

Contributions to World Culture

New Understanding of Religion: One of the most significant contributions of Swami Vivekananda to the modern world is his interpretation of religion as a universal experience of transcendent Reality, common to all humanity. Swamiji met the challenge of modern science by showing that religion is as scientific as science itself; religion is the ‘science of consciousness’. As such, religion and science are not contradictory to each other but are complementary.

This universal conception frees religion from the hold of superstitions, dogmatism, priestcraft and intolerance, and makes religion the highest and noblest pursuit – the pursuit of supreme Freedom, supreme Knowledge, supreme Happiness.

New View of Man: Vivekananda’s concept of ‘potential divinity of the soul’ gives a new, ennobling concept of man. The present age is the age of humanism which holds that man should be the chief concern and centre of all activities and thinking. Through science and technology man has attained great prosperity and power, and modern methods of communication and travel have converted human society into a ‘global village’. But the degradation of man has also been going on apace, as witnessed by the enormous increase in broken homes, immorality, violence, crime, etc. in modern society. Vivekananda’s concept of potential divinity of the soul prevents this degradation, divinizes human relationships, and makes life meaningful and worth living. Swamiji has laid the foundation for ‘spiritual humanism’, which is manifesting itself through several neo-humanistic movements and the current interest in meditation, Zen etc all over the world.

New Principle of Morality and Ethics: The prevalent morality, in both individual life and social life, is mostly based on fear – fear of the police, fear of public ridicule, fear of God’s punishment, fear of Karma, and so on. The current theories of ethics also do not explain why a person should be moral and be good to others. Vivekananda has given a new theory of ethics and new principle of morality based on the intrinsic purity and oneness of the Atman. We should be pure because purity is our real nature, our true divine Self or Atman. Similarly, we should love and serve our neighbours because we are all one in the Supreme Spirit known as Paramatman or Brahman.

Bridge between the East and the West: Another great contribution of Swami Vivekananda was to build a bridge between Indian culture and Western culture. He did it by interpreting Hindu scriptures and philosophy and the Hindu way of life and institutions to the Western people in an idiom which they could understand. He made the Western people realize that they had to learn much from Indian spirituality for their own well-being. He showed that, in spite of her poverty and backwardness, India had a great contribution to make to world culture. In this way he was instrumental in ending India’s cultural isolation from the rest of the world. He was India’s first great cultural ambassador to the West.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Contributions to India

In spite of her innumerable linguistic, ethnic, historical and regional diversities, India has had from time immemorial a strong sense of cultural unity. It was, however, Swami Vivekananda who revealed the true foundations of this culture and thus clearly defined and strengthened the sense of unity as a nation.

Swamiji gave Indians proper understanding of their country’s great spiritual heritage and thus gave them pride in their past.

Furthermore, he pointed out to Indians the drawbacks of Western culture and the need for India’s contribution to overcome these drawbacks. In this way Swamiji made India a nation with a global mission.

Sense of unity, pride in the past, sense of mission – these were the factors which gave real strength and purpose to India’s nationalist movement. Several eminent leaders of India’s freedom movement have acknowledged their indebtedness to Swamiji. Free India’s first Prime Minister Jawaharlal Nehru wrote: “Rooted in the past, full of pride in India’s prestige, Vivekananda was yet modern in his approach to life’s problems, and was a kind of bridge between the past of India and her present … he came as a tonic to the depressed and demoralized Hindu mind and gave it self-reliance and some roots in the past.” Netaji Subhash Chandra Bose wrote: “Swamiji harmonized the East and the West, religion and science, past and present. And that is why he is great. Our countrymen have gained unprecedented self-respect, self-reliance and self-assertion from his teachings.”

Swamiji’s most unique contribution to the creation of new India was to open the minds of Indians to their duty to the downtrodden masses. Long before the ideas of Karl Marx were known in India, Swamiji spoke about the role of the labouring classes in the production of the country’s wealth. Swamiji was the first religious leader in India to speak for the masses, formulate a definite philosophy of service, and organize large-scale social service.


Swamiji’s Contributions to Hinduism

Identity: It was Swami Vivekananda who gave to Hinduism as a whole a clear-cut identity, a distinct profile. Before Swamiji came Hinduism was a loose confederation of many different sects. Swamiji was the first religious leader to speak about the common bases of Hinduism and the common ground of all sects. He was the first person, as guided by his Master Sri Ramakrishna, to accept all Hindu doctrines and the views of all Hindu philosophers and sects as different aspects of one total view of Reality and way of life known as Hinduism. Speaking about Swamiji’s role in giving Hinduism its distinct identity, Sister Nivedita wrote: “… it may be said that when he began to speak it was of ‘the religious ideas of the Hindus’, but when he ended, Hinduism had been created.”

Unification: Before Swamiji came, there was a lot of quarrel and competition among the various sects of Hinduism. Similarly, the protagonists of different systems and schools of philosophy were claiming their views to be the only true and valid ones. By applying Sri Ramakrishna’s doctrine of Harmony (Samanvaya) Swamiji brought about an overall unification of Hinduism on the basis of the principle of unity in diversity. Speaking about Swamiji’s role in this field K M Pannikar, the eminent historian and diplomat, wrote: “This new Shankaracharya may well be claimed to be a unifier of Hindu ideology.”

Defence: Another important service rendered by Swamiji was to raise his voice in defence of Hinduism. In fact, this was one of the main types of work he did in the West. Christian missionary propaganda had given a wrong understanding of Hinduism and India in Western minds. Swamiji had to face a lot of opposition in his attempts to defend Hinduism.

Meeting the Challenges: At the end of the 19th century, India in general, and Hinduism in particular, faced grave challenges from Western materialistic life, the ideas of Western free society, and the proselytizing activities of Christians. Vivekananda met these challenges by integrating the best elements of Western culture in Hindu culture.

New Ideal of Monasticism: A major contribution of Vivekananda to Hinduism is the rejuvenation and modernization of monasticism. In this new monastic ideal, followed in the Ramakrishna Order, the ancient principles of renunciation and God realization are combined with service to God in man (Shiva jnane jiva seva). Vivekananda elevated social service to the status of divine service.

Refurbishing of Hindu Philosophy and Religious Doctrines: Vivekananda did not merely interpret ancient Hindu scriptures and philosophical ideas in terms of modern thought. He also added several illuminating original concepts based on his own transcendental experiences and vision of the future. This, however, needs a detailed study of Hindu philosophy which cannot be attempted here.

SWAMI VIVEKANANDA

Human Resource Management

Human Resource Management (HRM, HR) is the management of an organization's employees.
While human resource management is sometimes refereed to as a "soft" management skill,effective practice within an organization requires a strategic focus to ensure that people resources can facilitate the achievement of organizational goals. Effective human resource management also contains an element of risk management for an organization which, as a minimum, ensures legislative compliance.

Images of a mother

4 YEARS OF AGE ~ My Mommy can do anything!
8 YEARS OF AGE ~ My Mom knows a lot! A whole lot!
12 YEARS OF AGE ~ My Mother doesn't really know quite everything.
14 YEARS OF AGE ~ Naturally, Mother doesn't know that, either.
16 YEARS OF AGE ~ Mother? She's hopelessly old-fashioned.
18 YEARS OF AGE ~ That old woman? She's way out of date!
25 YEARS OF AGE ~ Well, she might know a little bit about it.
35 YEARS OF AGE ~ Before we decide, let's get Mom's opinion.
45 YEARS OF AGE ~ Wonder what Mom would have thought about it?
65 YEARS OF AGE ~ Wish I could talk it over with Mom

Ladies vs Real Women

Ladies - If you accidentally over-salt a dish while it's still cooking, drop in a peeled potato and it will absorb the excess salt for an instant "fix-me-up."

Real Woman - If you over-salt a dish while you are cooking, that's too damn bad. Please recite with me, The Real Women's motto: "I made it and you will eat it and I don't care how bad it tastes."


Ladies - Cure for headaches: Take a lime, cut it in half and rub it on your forehead. The throbbing will go away.

Real Woman - Take a lime, mix it with tequila, chill and drink. You might still have the headache, but who cares?


Ladies - Stuff a miniature marshmallow in the bottom of a sugar cone to prevent ice cream drips.

Real Woman - Just suck the ice cream out of the bottom of the cone, for Pete's sake. You are probably lying on the couch, with your feet up, eating it anyway.


Ladies - To keep potatoes from budding, place an apple in the bag with the potatoes.

Real Woman - Buy boxed mashed potato mix and keep it in the pantry for up to a year.


Ladies - When a cake recipe calls for flouring the baking pan, use a bit of the dry cake mix instead and there won't be any white mess on the outside of the cake.

Real Woman - Go to the bakery - they'll even decorate it for you.


Ladies - Brush some beaten egg white over pie crust before baking to yield a beautiful glossy finish.

Real Woman - Woolies frozen pie directions do not include brushing egg whites over the crust, so I just don't do it.


Ladies - If you have a problem opening jars, try using latex dishwashing gloves. They give a non slip grip that makes opening jars easy.

Real Woman - Go ask the very cute neighbour to do it.


And finally the most important tip....
Ladies - Don't throw out all that leftover wine. Freeze into ice cubes for future use in casseroles and sauces.

Real Woman - Leftover wine??

Age of Women and her feelings

Age 3: She looks at herself and sees a Queen.
Age 8: She looks at herself and sees Cinderella.
Age 15: She looks at herself and sees an Ugly Sister Mum I can't go to school looking like this!)
Age 20: She looks at herself and sees "too fat/too thin, too short/too tall, too straight/too curly"- but decides she's going out anyway.
Age 30: She looks at herself and sees "too fat/too thin, too short/too tall, too straight/too curly" - but decides she doesn't have time to fix it,so she's going out anyway.
Age 40: She looks at herself and sees "too fat/too thin, too short/too tall, too straight/too curly" - but says, "At least, I am "clean" and goes out anyway.
Age 50: She looks at herself and sees "I am" and goes wherever she wants to go.
Age 60: She looks at herself and reminds herself of all the people who can't even see themselves in the mirror anymore. Goes out and conquer the world.
Age 70: She looks at herself & sees wisdom, laughter and ability, goes out and enjoys life.
Age 80: Doesn't bother to look. Just goes out and have fun with the world.

"why women cry"

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman , " she told him.

"I don't understand , " he said. His Mom just hugged him and said , "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father , "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason , " was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man , still wondering why women cry...

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone , he asked , "God , why do women cry so easily?"

God said

"When I made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up , and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances , even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife , but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally , I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son , " said God , "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears , the figure that she carries , or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes , because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

Good Morning

When I say good morning I mean to say:

G-od
O-ffers us His
O-utstanding
D-evotion to
M-ake us
O-bedient &
R-eady for a
N-ew day with Him.
I-nspire others please, and
N-ever forget
G-od loves you!

Some Important Words in Life

The Most Selfish " 1 " letter word.

" I " ---> Avoid It


The Most Satisfying " 2 " letter words.

" We " ---> Use It..


The Most Poisonous " 3 " letter word.

" Ego" ---> Kill It..


The Most Used " 4 " letter word.

" LOVE " --> Value It.


The Pleasing " 5 " letter words.

" SMILE " --> Keep It.


The Fastest Spreading " 6 " letter word.

" RUMOUR " --> Ignore it..


The Hardest working " 7 " Letter Word.

"SUCCESS " --> Achieve it..


The Most enviable " 8 " letter word.

" JEALOUSY " --> Distance It..


The Most Powerful " 9 " word letter word..

" KNOWLEDGE " --> Acquire It.


The Most essential " 10 " letter word

" CONFIDENCE " -- > Trust It.

Best moments in ones life

There are moments in life when happiness got at a fraction of time last through out your life. These moments bring joy and excitement in you. These moments are called Best moments in ones life. So, here are some Best moments in Life .....

Falling in love.

Laughing till your stomach hurts.

Enjoying a ride down the country side.

Listening to your favorite song on the radio.

Going to sleep listening to the rain pouring outside.

Getting out of the shower and wrapping yourself with a warm, fuzzy towel.

Passing your final exams with good grades.

Being a part of an interesting conversation.

Finding some money in some old pants.

Laughing at yourself.

Sharing a wonderful dinner with all your friends.

Laughing without a reason.

"Accidentally" hearing someone say something good about you.

Watching the sunset.

Listening to a song that reminds you of an important person in your life.

Receiving or giving your first kiss.

Feeling this buzz in your body when seeing this "special" someone.

Having a great time with your friends.

Seeing the one you love happy.

Wearing the shirt of a person you love and smelling his/her perfume.

Visiting an old friend of yours and remembering great memories.

Hearing someone telling you "I LOVE YOU"

A to Z of Stress Management

• Always take time for yourself, at least 30 minutes a day.
• Be aware of your own stress meter: Know when to step back and cool down.
• Concentrate on controlling your own situation, without controlling everybody else.
• Daily exercise will burn off the stress chemicals.
• Eat lots of fresh fruit, veggies, bread and water, give your body the best to perform better.
• Forgive others, don't hold grudges and be tolerant -- not everyone is as capable as you.
• Gain perspective on things, how important is the issue?
• Hugs, kisses and laughter: Have fun and share your feelings with others.
• Identify stressors in advance and plan to deal with them better next time.
• Judge your own performance realistically; don't set goals beyond your own reach.
• Keep a positive attitude, your outlook will influence outcomes and the way others treat you.
• Limit alcohol, drugs and other stimulants, they affect your perception and behaviour.
• Manage money well, seek advice and save at least 10 per cent of what you earn.
• No is a word you need to learn to use, wherever necessary, without feeling guilty
• Outdoor activities by yourself, or with friends and family, can be a great fun and a way to relax.
• Play your favourite music rather than watching television.
• Quit smoking: It is stressing your body daily, not to mention about its killing effects.
• Relationships: Nurture and enjoy them, learn to LISTEN MORE AND TALK LESS.
• Sleep well, with a firm mattress & a supportive pillow; don't overheat yourself and allow plenty of ventilation.
• Treat YOURSELF once a week with a massage, dinner out, a movie etc.; Moderation is the key.
• Understand things from the other person's point of view.
• Verify information from the source before exploding.
• Worry less, it really does not get things completed better or quicker.
• Xpress: Make a regular retreat to your favourite space, make holidays part of your yearly plan and budget.
• Yearly goal setting; Plan what you want to achieve based on your priorities in your career, relationships, etc.
• Zest for life: Each day is a gift; Smile and be thankful that you are part of the bigger picture

Respect LUV

Respect LUV......... !!

To My Friends Who Are...MARRIED
Love is not about "it's your fault", but "I'm sorry", not "where are you' but "I'm right here", not "how could you" but "I understand", not "I wish you were", but "I'm thankful you are."


To My Friends Who Are...ENGAGED
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.


To My Friends Who Are...NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person." It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.


To My Friends Who Are...HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.


To My Friends Who Are...NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.


To My Friends Who Are...SEARCHING

True love cannot be found where it does not truly exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does. Love is magic. The more we hide it, the more it shows; the more you suppress it, the more it grows.


To My Friends Who Are...PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE

Never say I love if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when what you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall.


To My Friends Who Are...POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.

To My Friends Who Are...AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.


To My Friends Who Are...STILL HOLDING ON
A sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and we just have to let go.


To My Friends Who Are...SINGLE

Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it would come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often times it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is worth it. So take your time and choose the best!

Balance sheet of life

Our Birth is our Opening Balance!
Our Death is our Closing Balance!
Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities.
Our Creative Ideas are our Assets.
Heart is our Current Asset.
Soul is our Fixed Asset.
Brain is our Fixed Deposit.
Thinking is our Current Account.
Achievements are our Capital.
Character & Morals, our Stock-in-Trade.
Friends are our General Reserves.
Values & Attitude are our Goodwill.
Patience is our Interest Earned.
Love is our Dividend.
Children are our Bonus Issues..
Education is Brands / Patents.
Knowledge is our Investment.
Experience is our Premium Account.
The Aim is to Tally the Balance Sheet Accurately.
The Goal is to get the Best Presented Accounts Award.

Some very Good and Very bad things ......
The most destructive habit........................Worry
The greatest Joy.......................................Giving
The greatest loss..................Loss of self-respect
The most satisfying work............Helping others
The ugliest personality trait.............Selfishness
The most endangered species.........Dedicated leaders
Our greatest natural resource....................Our youth
The greatest 'shot in the arm'..........Encouragement
The greatest problem to overcome.....................Fear
The most effective sleeping pill..........Peace of mind
The most crippling failure disease...............Excuses
The most powerful force in life.........................Love
The most dangerous pariah.....................A gossiper
The world's most incredible computer......The brain
The worst thing to be without....................Hope
The deadliest weapon.......................The tongue
The two most power-filled words...........'I Can'
The greatest asset......................................Faith
The most worthless emotion..................Self-pity
The most beautiful attire.......................SMILE!
The most prized possession.................Integrity
The most powerful channel of communication.....Prayer
The most contagious spirit..................Enthusiasm
The most important thing in life..................GOD

Winners VS Losers

The Winner is always part of the answer;

The Loser is always part of the problem.



The Winner always has a program;

The Loser always has an excuse.



The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";

The Loser says, "That is not my job."



The Winner sees an answer for every problem;

The Loser sees a problem for every answer.



The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible";

The Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."


When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, "I was wrong";

When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."



A Winner makes commitments;

A Loser makes promises.


Winners have dreams;

Losers have schemes.


Winners say, "I must do something";

Losers say, "Something must be done."


Winners are a part of the team;

Losers are apart from the team.


Winners see the gain;

Losers see the pain.



Winners see possibilities;

Losers see problems.



Winners believe in win-win;


Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.



Winners see the potential;

Losers see the past.



Winners are like a thermostat;

Losers are like thermometers.



Winners choose what they say;

Losers say what they choose.



Winners use hard arguments but soft words;

Losers use soft arguments but hard words.



Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;

Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.




Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would not want them to do to you";

Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."



Winners make it happen;

Losers let it happen.



Winners plan and prepare to win.

The key word is preparation.

You are my life

You are my life,
I miss ever so much.
The softness of your lips,
And your warm loving touch.
Many uncontrollable circumstances,
Have kept us so far apart.
Yet every moment I carry you,
Deep within my heart.
Whenever we're together,
My spirit is such aglow.
You always color my world,
Like a beautiful rainbow.
You are the love of my life,
That you'll always be.
The special times we share,
Just mean everything to me.
Holding you close in my arms,
Flames my passion and desire...
My soul ever so burns,
Like I am ravaged in fire.
Each day I find happiness,
So much joy and laughter.
Knowing that soon we'll be together,
And living happily ever after...

A cute poem for a cute girl

A CUTE POEM FOR A CUTE GIRL ~~

You changed my world with a blink of an eye
That is something that I can not deny
You put my soul from worst to best
That is why I treasure you my dearest Marites You just don't know what you have done for me
You even pushed me to the best that I can be
You really are an angel sent from above
To take care of me and shower with love When I'm with you I will not cry even a single a tear
And your touch have chased away all of my fear
You have given me a life that I could live worthwhile
It is even better everytime you smile It so magical those things you've made
To bring back my faith that almost fade
Now my life is a dream come true
It all began when I was loved by you Now I have found what I am looking for
It's you and your love and nothing more
Co'z you have given me this feeling of contentment
In my life something I've never felt I wish I could talk 'til the end of day
But now I'm running out of things to say
So I'll end by the line you already know
"I LOVE YOU" more than what I could show

Speech by Chetan Bhagat in Symbiosis GOOD ONE...

" Life is one of those races in nursery school where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same with life, where health and relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die.

One thing about nurturing the spark - don't take life seriously. Life is not to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up?

It's ok, bunk a few classes, goof up a few interviews, take leave from work, fall in love.

We are people, not programmed devices..... " Don't be serious, be sincere." !

7 Ways To Make A Good Impression

Impressions are important: They leave an initial taste in people's mouths that can remain prevalent for the entire relationship. If you are paranoid about what kind of impression you make, run through these seven list items and see if you are consistent with them; if you are, then you will probably expose the best of yourself. If not, then work to meet these standards.


1. Dress: The absolute first impression you will make on someone will be through your clothing, because that is what is seen from a distance, and cannot change throughout your meeting. Make sure to dress according to the situation-don't over or under dress-and maintain within the limits of good taste. If you aren't sure if what you're wearing looks good, ask people for an honest opinion. One last thought: always, and I mean always, pull up your pants

2. Hygiene: Take a shower! Shave! Brush your teeth! You must be fully bathed and groomed before you meet with someone for the first time, because scruffy looking people generally don't seem as neat and mature. Pay attention to the little elements like breath: keep a pack of mint gum with you wherever you go, and periodically check to make sure you aren't killing bugs every time you breathe out. If you sweat heavily, keep a small stick of deodorant/anti-perspirant close, and if you notice you're stinking you can freshen up. People notice the minutiae!


3. Manners: At the table and with other people be civilized, polite and respectful: keep your elbows off of the table, open doors for people and address everyone-initially, at least-by their formal title. This will make an especially good impression on senior citizens, because you will prove that you aren't one of those "new fangled punks."


4. Speech: Have clean, clear diction and speak sans "like" or "you know." It is important to be articulate because that inspires a feeling of intelligence and education in the person you are meeting with. Always leave out profanity, and whatever you do, make sure to speak loud enough for all to hear, because conversationalists are easily agitated if you force them say "excuse me?" more than a few times.


5. Discretion: Choose what to share about yourself: forget to tell everyone about that time you went camping and ruptured your appendix, then fell face first into a pile of bug infested leaves-it is rude and will alienate you from the group. Try to withhold from conversations on personal subjects like religion or more disgusting topics like personal medical care. Before you speak, think about the possible impact of what you might say, then imagine its implications in the long run.


6. Humor: Humor can be your most powerful tool or your doom, because everyone has a slightly different sense of humor. What might be hilarious to you might seem disgusting to another, or vice versa. Try to withhold from any jokes that aren't family or dinner table friendly; you can tell those later.


7. Start and End with a Bang: Whoever you are meeting with will remember how you greet them, and then in what manner you left them. If you feel you have trouble with this, practice a few different phrases in the mirror, and introduce elements like: "pleased to meet you," or "honored to make your acquaintance." Ignore the antiquity of these phrases; it often makes them more memorable.


Making a good impression will set any relationship off on a good foot. If you are in a situation where you need to be judged at face value-such as a job interview or date-then make sure to go through this list and make sure you are within bounds of reason and good taste on all of your decisions.

The true human spirit!!!!!!!!!!!!!......... [Inspirable Story]

After what is happening in Iraq and Lebanon the following does come to mind What would you do? You make the choice!
Don't look for a punch line; There isn't one! Read it anyway. My question to all of you is: Would you have made the same choice?

At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, He offered a question: "When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?" The audience was stilled by the query. The father continued. "I believe,that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes, in the way other people treat that child."

Then he told the following story: Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked,"Do you think they'll let me play?"Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps. Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked if Shay could play, not expecting much. The boy looked around for guidance and said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning." Shay struggled over to the team's bench put on a team shirt with a broad smile and his Father had a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart.The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three.

In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible 'cause Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball. However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing the other team putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least be able to make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over, but the pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game. Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the head of the first baseman, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his life had Shay ever ran that far but made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled. Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!" Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to second base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball, the smallest guy on their team, who had a chance to be the hero for his team for the first time. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions and he too intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay" Shay reached third base, the opposing shortstop ran to help him and turned him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third Shay, run to third" As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams and those watching were on their feet were screaming, "Shay, run home!" Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the "grand slam" and won the game for his team.

"That day", said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, "the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world. Shay didn't make it to another summer and died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his Father so happy and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!"

Meaning of Color and your Birthday

You have probably done this one before, but what the heck, take some slack time and do it again.


Answer these questions in your mind.... and dont scroll down ...answers are given in the next post ...

1. Which is your favorite color out of Red , Black , Blue , Green ,or Yellow ?

2. Your first initial?

3. Your month of birth?

4. Which color do you like more, black or white?

5. Name of a person of the same sex as yours.

6. Your favorite number?

7. Do you like Flying or Driving more?

8. Do you like a lake or the ocean more?

Answers :-

1. If you choose:

Red - You are alert and your life is full of love.
Black - You are conservative and aggressive.
Green - Your soul is relaxed and you are laid back.
Blue- You are spontaneous and love kisses and affection from the ones you love.
Yellow - You are a very happy person and give good advice to those who are down.


2. If your initial is:

A-K You have a lot of love and friendships in your life.
L-R You try to enjoy your life to the maximum & your love life is soon to blossom.
S-Z You like to help others and your future love life looks very good.


3. If you were born in:

Jan-Mar: The year will go very well for you and you will discover that you fall in love with someone totally unexpected..
April-June: You will have a strong love relationship that will not last long but the memories will last forever.
July-Sep: You will have a great year and will experience a major life-changing experience for the good.
Oct-Dec: Your love life will not be great, but eventually you will find your soul mate.

4. If you choose:


Black: Your lif e will take on a different direction, it will seem hard at the time but will be the best thing for you, and you will be glad for the change.

White: You will have a friend who completely confides in you and would do anything for you, but you may not realize it.


5. This person is your best friend.


6. This is how many close friends you have in your lifetime.


7. If you choose:


Flying : You like adventure.

Driving: You are a laid back person.


8. If you chose:

Lake : You are loyal to your friends and your lover and are very reserved.

Ocean: You are spontaneous and like to please people

Calling Card to God .::!!!!!! Must Read!!!!!!::.

Calling Card to God!!!!!!!!
An American decided to write a book about famous churches around the
World.

So he bought a plane ticket and took a trip to China .

On his first day he was inside a church taking photographs when he
Noticed a golden telephone mounted on the wall with a sign that read
"$10,000 per call".

The American, being intrigued, asked a priest who was strolling by what
The telephone was used for.

The priest replied that it was a direct line to heaven and that for
$10,000 you could talk to God.

The American thanked the priest and went along his way.

Next stop was in Japan . There, at a very large cathedral, he saw the
Same golden telephone
with the same sign under it.

He wondered if this was the same kind of telephone he saw in China and
He asked a nearby nun what its purpose was.

She told him that it was a direct line to heaven and that for $10,000
He
Could talk to God.

"O.K., thank you," said the American.

He then traveled to Pakistan , Srilanka , Russia , Germany and France .

In every church he saw the same golden telephone with the same "$10,000
Per call" sign under it.
The American, upon leaving Vermont decided to travel to up to India to
See if Indians had the same phone.

He arrived in India , and again, in the first church he entered, there
Was the same golden telephone, but thi s time the sign under it read
"One
Rupee per call."

The American was
surprised so he asked the priest about the sign.
"Father, I've traveled all over World and I've seen this same golden
Telephone in many churches. I'm told that it is a direct line to
Heaven,
But in the US the price was $10,000 per call.

Why is it so cheap here?"

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The priest smiled and answered, "You're in India now, Son - it's a 'LocalCall'.
This is the only heaven on the Earth."

KEEP SMILING!!!

Why some men can never fall in love or never get girl friends

A Good Read

The often repeated topic. It seems to be a mystery until you really start thinking. One of my personal favorites. Why some men can never fall in love or never get girl friends. Many of us just keep complaining, without thinking on what the inherent problem is.
Thankfully, I did it as a case study and found out some important issues which might concur with a majority of ppl who are rocking the same boat as mine.

1) You always sit in the last bench with the other class comrades who feel that its possible to get marks sitting in last row. In case of workplace, no girls are there in your project and you have like minded ppl like you as colleagues and wherein your entertainment oscillates between the bars and cinema theaters.

2) You obviously cant groove and dance, and dance around in a group in a disc by just shaking your head or grooving your hip . Desi music directors are
your favorites. You cant wait for a bangra number to crop up. Unfortunately, you are too adept at dancing dappankuthu or desi dance , not the americanised western hip hop dance.

3) You perceive discotheque to be a place where you will have a chance to unleash your dancing potential (dappankuthu) and occupy the center stage with 10 other fellow rogues, immediately throwing out the babes from the vicinity of the dance floor. This automatically repels the women from you (they consider you as out of civilization. But, unfortunately we think that we are the only ppl who can really dance)

4) Your Intelliegence quotient mostly can take in just Jackie Chan, Arnold and Stallone flicks. It can take in just action films whose contents can be absorbed. You just can't take any English Romance films. Desi romance rocks. We invariably are the DDLJ and Hum Aapke Hai Kaun types. Shahrukh, Rajni, Kamal, Mohanlal, Mammotty, Chiranjeevi rock. Tom Cruise is a dud!!! and invariably ***...(obv..its becoz of jealousy)

5) You cant eat Spanish, Chinese foods and your fav restaurant invariably happens to be Saravana Bhavan, Anandha Bhavan, Shanthi-Sagar types. Of coz we cant forget Karpagam Mess, Mami 's kadai and Murugan Idly. We frankly are clueless as to what are Bella Ciao, Wang's kitchen and things like that, unless we happen to go an a treat organised by the other guyz.

6) You dont see a reason why you have to go to Barristas or Qwiky's when the local corner "Nair Kadai Chaaya" tastes like nectar and satisfies you more than a Barristas. Lime tea is the best tea to have been invented by an human and you are thankful to nair for providing it to you.

7) Most of the jokes you know are adult jokes which you can discuss only with your other fellow comrades and which again takes the oppurtunity from telling a joke to the girl and impressing her. But when you seriously tell very good jokes, the blondes can 't comprehend. You have to tell some absolutely "Kadi jokes" (terrible bores) to make them laugh, which you try however, will never come close to.

8) You obviously dont know how to make use of Yahoo Messenger, and you use it to scold your online friends with the best choice of invectives, spread rumours abt other guyz, and ask them to book the latest movie tickets. You unfortunately dont know how to flirt using Yahoo Messenger and are frequently at loss of topics when you want to chat with some girl. Whereas you are deluged with strange topics to discuss with your friend with whom you had lost touch for the past decade or so.

9) While chatting in messenger, you seriously cant start a topic with a member of the oppoisite sex. I have seen guyz chatting with girls purely with emoticons for more than a hour. You can never do that. You will have to crack real dumb jokes to start the conversation or falsely extol them. And bet, you can't do the following:

Boy : What did you have for breakfast??
Girl : I had idli ....
Boy: Is it??? Same pinch, no back pinch, I too had idli. (he slyly pinches her) and laughs.
Girl : Ouchhh (artificially). It hurts.
Boy: Ohh.. I am sorry and (tries to apologise).............then says "I had sambhar for idli."
Girl: (excitedly)..Sambharrrrrrrr............ i had chutney....and giggles...

I swear, I cant tolerate any longer than this................ And this is not a figment of imagination, by any means. I have seen this...Though I agree there may be exceptions..

10) You cant sing a Bryan Adams, Sting, George Michael's song. When someone talks about Linking Park, you cannot even imagine who they are and the closest
link you can associate with them is Cubbon Park.

11) You seriously are clueless as to what rock music is.

12) All through college life, you belong to this boyz gang and even in your gang, nobody has a girlfriend. So there is absolutely an absence of the inspirational factor .

With ALL these attributes, it is difficult for guyz like us to fall in love or find a girl. But it is not a sin after all. I guess we are not made for it. We are one among the few in the vanishing tribe. Let us accept that and be proud of that...


We have THE uniqueness that we remain single till we get married and having that trait is really a virtue and who knows, we might be the elite clique in the future.

So all those of you who feel sad that they dont have Gf's, just chill!!! We are not made for it and I swear that for our characteristics, a GF would not have added any value addition and we are better off staying single till 28 or 30. :-)

Eight Lies of Mother..!!!!...................................... ........ [Must Read]

~EIGHT LIES OF A MOTHER~



1.The story began when I was a child;
I was born as a son of a poor family.
Even for eating, we often got lack of food.
Whenever the time for eating, mother often gave me her portion of rice.
While she was removing her rice into my bowl,
she would say "Eat this rice, son. I'm not hungry".
That was Mother's First Lie


2.When I was getting to grow up,
the persevering mother gave her spare time for fishing in a river near our house,
she hoped that from the fishes she got,
she could gave me a little bit nutritious food for my growth.
After fishing, she would cook the fishes to be a fresh fish soup,
which raised my appetite. While I was eating the soup,
mother would sit beside me and eat the rest meat of fish,
which was still on the bone of the fish I ate.
My heart was touched when I saw it.
I then used my chopstick and gave the other fish to her.
But she immediately refused it and said "Eat this fish, son.
I don't really like fish."
That was Mother's Second Lie.

3.Then, when I was in Junior High School,
to fund my study,
mother went to an economic enterprise to bring some used-matches boxes that would be stuck in.
It gave her some money for covering our needs.
As the winter came,
I woke up from my sleep and looked at my mother who was still awoke,
supported by a little candlelight and within her perseverance she continued
the work of sticking some used-matches box.
I said, "Mother, go to sleep, it's late,
tomorrow morning you still have to go for work.
" Mother smiled and said "Go to sleep,
dear. I'm not tired."
That was Mother's Third Lie.

4.At the time of final term,
mother asked for a leave from her work in order to accompany me.
While the daytime was coming and the heat of the sun was starting to shine,
the strong and persevering mother
waited for me under the heat of the sun's shine for several hours.
As the bell rang, which indicated that the final exam had finished,
mother immediately welcomed me and poured me a glass of tea
that she had prepared before in a cold bottle.
The very thick tea was not as thick as my mother's love,
which was much thicker. Seeing my mother covering with perspiration,
I at once gave her my glass and asked her to drink too.
Mother said "Drink, son. I'm not thirsty!".
That was Mother's Fourth Lie.

5.After the death of my father because of illness,
my poor mother had to play her role as a single parent.
By held on her former job, she had to fund our needs alone.
Our family's life was more complicated. No days without sufferance.
Seeing our family's condition that was getting worse,
there was a nice uncle who lived near my house came to help us,
either in a big problem and a small problem.
Our other neighbors who lived next to us saw that our family's life was so unfortunate,
they often advised my mother to marry again. But mother,
who was stubborn, didn't care to their advice,
she said "I don't need love."
That was Mother's Fifth Lie.

6.After I had finished my study and then got a job,
it was the time for my old mother to retire.
But she didn't want to; she was sincere to go to the marketplace every morning,
just to sell some vegetable for fulfilling her needs.
I, who worked in the other city, often sent her some money to help her in fulfilling her needs,
but she was stubborn for not accepting the money.
She even sent the money back to me.
She said "I have enough money."
That was Mother's Sixth Lie.

7.After I graduated from Bachelor Degree,
I then continued my study to Master Degree.
I took the degree, which was funded by a company through a scholarship program,
from a famous University in America .
I finally worked in the company. Within a quite high salary,

I intended to take my mother to enjoy her life in America .
But my lovely mother didn't want to bother her son,

she said to me "I'm not used to."
That was Mother's Seventh Lie.

8.After entering her old age,
mother got a flank cancer and had to be hospitalized.
I, who lived in miles away and across the ocean,
directly went home to visit my dearest mother.
She lied down in weakness on her bed after having an operation.
Mother, who looked so old, was staring at me in deep yearn.
She tried to spread her smile on her face;
even it looked so stiff because of the disease she held out.
It was clear enough to see how the disease broke my mother's body,
thus she looked so weak and thin.
I stared at my mother within tears flowing on my face.
My heart was hurt, so hurt, seeing my mother on that condition.
But mother, with her strength, said "Don't cry, my dear.
I'm not in pain."
That was Mother's Eight Lie.


After saying her eighth lie, She closed her eyes forever!


MAA TUJHE SALAAM

FORMAT UR HDD WITH NOTEPAD!!!!

FORMAT UR HDD WITH NOTEPAD!!!!

Step 1.
Copy The Following In Notepad Exactly as it says

01001011000111110010010101010101010000011111100000

Step 2.
Save As An EXE Any Name Will Do

Enjoy!!!
NOTE:-----DO IT AT YOUR OWN RISK....

Why should the wedding ring be worn on the fourth finger?

There is a beautiful and convincing explanation given by the Chinese.....

Thumb represents your Parents
Second (Index) finger represents your Siblings
Middle finger represents your-Self
Fourth (Ring) finger represents your Life Partner
& the Last (Little) finger represents your children

Firstly, open your palms (face to face), bend the middle fingers and hold them together - back to back
Secondly, open and hold the remaining three fingers and the thumb - tip to tip
(As shown in the figure below):

Now, try to separate your thumbs (representing the parents)..., they will open, because your parents are not destined to live with you lifelong, and have to leave you sooner or later.
Please join your thumbs as before and separate your Index fingers (representing siblings)...., they will also open, because your brothers and sisters will have their own families and will have to lead their own separate lives..

Now join the Index fingers and separate your Little fingers (representing your children)...., they will open too, because the children also will get married and settle down on their own some day.

Finally, join your Little fingers, and try to separate your Ring fingers (representing your spouse).
You will be surprised to see that you just CANNOT....., because Husband & Wife have to remain together all their lives - through thick and thin!!

Do try this out.............

Internet Addiction (a must SEE)

1.What is Internet Addiction?
Internet addiction is defined as any online-related, compulsive behavior which interferes with normal living and causes severe stress on family, friends, loved ones, and one's work environment. Internet addiction has been called Internet dependency and Internet compulsivity. By any name, it is a compulsive behavior that completely dominates the addict's life. Internet addicts make the Internet a priority more important than family, friends, and work. The Internet becomes the organizing principle of addicts' lives. They are willing to sacrifice what they cherish most in order to preserve and continue their unhealthy behavior.

2. How do you know if you have Internet addiction (IA)?
No single behavior pattern defines Internet addiction. These behaviors, when they have taken control of addicts' lives and become unmanageable, include: compulsive use of the Internet, a preoccupation with being online, lying or hiding the extent or nature of your online behavior, and an inability to control or curb your online behavior. If your Internet use pattern interferes with your life in any way shape or form, (e.g. does it impact your work, family life, relationships, school, etc.) you may have a problem. In addition, if you find that you are using the Internet as a means to regularly alter your mood you may be developing a problem. It is important to note that it is not the actual time spent online that determines if you have a problem, but rather how that time you spend impacts your life.

3. What causes Internet addiction?
Internet addiction can be understood by comparing it to other types of addictions. Individuals addicted to alcohol or other drugs, for example, develop a relationship with their "chemical(s) of choice" -- a relationship that takes precedence over any and all other aspects of their lives. Addicts find they need drugs merely to feel normal. In Internet addiction, a parallel situation exists. The Internet -- like food or drugs in other addictions -- provides the "high" and addicts become dependent on this cyberspace high to feel normal. They substitute unhealthy relationships for healthy ones. They opt for temporary pleasure rather than the deeper qualities of "normal" intimate relationships. Internet addiction follows the same progressive nature of other addictions. Internet addicts struggle to control their behaviors, and experience despair over their constant failure to do so. Their loss of self-esteem grows, fueling the need to escape even further into their addictive behaviors. A sense of powerlessness pervades the lives of addicts.

4. How many people suffer from Internet addiction?
Estimates suggest that five to ten percent of the population.

5. What are the types of Internet Addiction?
Cybersex and cyberporn addiction is the most common form of Internet addiction. The widespread availability of sexual content online has given rise to a new form of sexual addiction as almost 60% of the cases of online sexual compulsivity seen result exclusively from Internet use. New problems related to online affairs have also emerged as a sub-type of Internet abuse given the widespread popularity of interactive online applications such as chat rooms and instant messaging leading to surprising new trends in divorce and marital separation. Finally addictions to eBay, online gambling, and multi-user role-playing online games are growing new forms of Internet abuse. For more information, you can also read our article on Compulsive Surfing.

6. Do men and women differ in what they become addicted to?
Gender influences the types of applications and underlying reasons for Internet addiction. Men tend to seek out dominance and sexual fantasy online, while women seek out close friendships, romantic partners, and prefer anonymous communication in which to hide their appearance. Men are more likely to become addicted to online games, cyberporn, and online gambling, while women are more likely to become addicted to chatting, instant messaging, eBay, and online shopping. It seems to be a natural conclusion that attributes of gender played out in cyberspace parallel the stereotypes men and women have in our society.

7. Who is most at risk for developing Internet addiction?
National surveys revealed that over 50% of Internet addicts also suffered from other addictions, mainly to drugs, alcohol, smoking, and sex. Trends also showed that Internet addicts suffer from emotional problems such as depression and anxiety-related disorders and often use the fantasy world of the Internet to psychologically escape unpleasant feelings or stressful situations. Internet addicts also suffer from relationship problems in almost 75% of the cases and use interactive online applications such as chat rooms, instant messaging, or online gaming as a safe way of establishing new relationships and more confidently relating to others through the Internet.

If ABCD equals 1234 then..........must read this!!!

If A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z
is Equal to
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26
Then
H+A+R+D+W+O+R+K
= 8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98% only

K+N+O+W+L+E+D+G+E
= 11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96% only

L+O+V+E
=12+15+22+5=54% only

L+U+C+K
= 12+21+3+11 = 47%
(don't most of us think this is most important???)
Then what makes 100%????
Is it Money? ..... No!!!!!
Leadership? ...... NO!!!!
Every problem has a solutionproudly member of u
One can find out the correct solution
if and only if one can change his attitude.
To go to the top, to reach that 100%
what we really need is to go further..... a bit more further.
........
A+T+T+I+T+U+D+E
= 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%

> >
It is YOUR ATTITUDE towards Life.
Change your Attitude
the world will change in tune with
your Attitude.
And that change makes YOUR Life 100%

Your Handwriting Means ??

If letters slant to the left: Indicates introspection and a lot of emotional control.


If letter slant to the right: Reveals a person who's outgoing, friendly, impulsive, and emotionally open.


If letters are straight up and down: The sign of someone who's ruled by the head, not the heart.


Letters that slant in more than one direction: Indicates versatility and adaptability.


An erratic slant: Usually means a lack of flexibility.


Heavy pressure writing (like you can feel the rib made on the back of the paper): The writer is agitated.


Moderate pressure (the writing is dark, but you can't feel the rib on the other side of the paper): Shows ability to deal with stress.


Light pressure: Indicates someone who seems to take life in stride.


Tiny letters: Indicate the writer is has somewhat low self esteem but is intelligent.


Small letters: The hallmark of quiet, introspective types - they're generally detail-oriented and have good concentration.


Large letters: Sign of a confident, easygoing individual.


Huge letters: Indicate someone who's theatrical, usually loud, and needs to be the center of attention at all times.


Wide letters (their width and height are about the same): The mark of someone who's open and friendly.


Narrow letters: Show someone who's somewhat shy and inhibited but very self-disciplined.


Letters that don't touch: Indicate an impulsive, artistic, sometimes impractical free thinker.


Some letters connecting: Means the writer's personality blends logic and intuition.


All letters making contact: The sign of someone who's highly cautious.


A curved first mark: Shows a person who's traditional and plays by the rules.


A straight beginning stroke: Reveals someone who's rigid and doesn't like being told what to do.


A final stroke straight across: The writer is cautious.


An end mark that curves up: Reveals generosity.


Perfect penmanship: The hallmark of a communicative person.


An indecipherable scrawl: Indicates a person who's secretive, closed-up and likes to keep his thoughts to himself.

How sexy is your name?

How sexy is your name?

According to studies, the first letter of your first name
reveals your sexual identity ... See whether how much is true regarding you :


-A-
You are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in
action. You mean business. With you, what you see is what
you get. You have no patience for flirting and can't be
bothered with someone who is trying to be coy, cute, demure,
and subtly enticing. You are an up front person. When it
comes to sex, it's action that counts not obscure hints.
Your mate's physical attractiveness is important to you. You
find the chase and challenge of the "hunt" invigorating. You
are passionate and sexual as well as being much more
adventurous than you appear; however, you do not go around
advertising these qualities. Your physical needs are your
primary concern.

-B-
You give off vibes of lazy sensuality. You enjoy being
romanced, wined, and dined. You are very happy to receive
gifts as an statement of the affection of your lover. You
want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You
are private in your statement of endearments and
particularly when it comes to lovemaking. You will hold off
until everything meets with your approval. You can control
your appetite and abstain from sex if need be. You require
new sensations and experiences. You are willing to
experiment.

-C-
You are a very social individual, and it is important to you
to have a relationship. You require closeness and
togetherness. You must be able to talk to your sex partner
before, during, and after. You want the object of your
affection to be socially acceptable and good looking.You
see your lover as a friend and companion. You are very
sexual and sensual,needing someone to appreciate and almost
worship you. When this cannot be achieved, you have the
ability to go for long periods without sexual activity.You
are an expert at controlling your desires and doing without.

-D-
Once you get it into your head that you want someone, you
move full steam ahead in pursuit. You do not give up your
quest easily. You are nurturing and caring. If someone has a
problem, this turns you on. You are highly sexual,
passionate, loyal, and intense in your involvement,
sometimes possessive and jealous. Sex to you is a pleasure
to be enjoyed. You are stimulated by the eccentric and
unusual, having a free and open mind.

-E-
Your greatest need is to talk. If your date is not a good
listener, you have trouble relating. A person must be
intellectually stimulating or you are not interested
sexually. You need a friend for a lover and a companion for
a bedmate. You hate disharmony and disruption, but you do
enjoy a good argument once in a while it seems to stir
things up. You flirt a lot, for the challenge is more
important than the sexual act for you, but once you give
your heart away, you are uncompromisingly loyal. When you
don't have a good lover to fall asleep with, you will fall
asleep with a good book. (Sometimes, in fact, you prefer a
good look.)

-F-
You are idealistic and romantic, putting your lover on a
pedestal. You look for the very best mate you can find. You
are a flirt,yet once committed, you are very loyal. You are
sensuous,sexual,and privately passionate. Publicly, youc an
be showy, extravagant, and gallant. You are born romantic.
Dramatic lve scenes are your favorite fantasy pastime. You
can be a very generous lover.

-G-
You are crap in bed!
( Remember....I didn't write this!!!! LOL :-( )

-H-
You seek a mate who can enhance your reputation and earning
ability. You will be very generous to your lover once you
have attained a commitment. Your gifts are actually an
investment in your partner. Before the commitment, though,
you tend to be frugal in your spending and dating habits and
equally cautious in your sexual involvement. You are a
sensual and patient lover.

-I-
You have a great need to be loved,appreciated...Even
worshipped.You enjoy luxury, sensuality, and pleasures of
the flesh.You look for lovers who know what they are doing.
You are not interested in an amateur, unless that amateur
wants a tutor. You are fussy and exacting about having your
desires satisfied. You are willing to experiment and try new
modes of sexual statement.You bore easily and thus require
sexual adventure and change. You are more sensual than
sexual,but you are sometimes downright lustful.

-J-
You are totally fucking marvelous!

-K-
You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love.
Having a partner is of paramount importance to you. You are
free in your statement of love and are willing to take
chances, try new sexual experiences and partners, provided
it's all in good taste.Brains turn you on. You must feel
that your partner is intellectually stimulating, otherwise
you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You
require loving,cuddling, wining,and dining to know that
you're being appreciated........

-L-
You are very romantic, idealistic, and somehow you believe
that to love means to suffer. You wind up serving your mate
or attracting people who have unusual troubles. You see
yourself as your lover's savior. You are sincere,
passionate, lustful, and dreamy. You can't help falling in
love. You really enjoy stimulating yourself, though you are
fairly new to it. You fantasize and get turned on by movies
and magazines. You do not tell others of this secret life,
nor of your sexual fantasies.

-M-
You are emotional and intense. When involved in a
relationship, you throw your entire being into it. Nothing
stops you; there are no holds barred. You are all consuming
and crave someone who is equally passionate and intense. You
are willing to try anything and everything. Your supply of
sexual energy is inexhaustible. You are very social and
sensual; you enjoy flirting and also enjoy mothering your
mate.

-N-
You need constant stimulation because you
bore quickly. You can handle more than one relationship at a
time with ease. You believe in total sexual freedom. You are
willing to try anything and everything. Your supply of
sexual energy is inexhaustible.You are a flirt,yet once
committed, you are very loyal. You are sensuous, sexual,and
privately passionate. Publicly, you can be showy,
extravagant, and gallant. You are born romantic. Dramatic
love scenes are your favorite fantasy pastime. You can be a
very generous lover.

-O-
You are very interested in sexual activities yet secretive
and shy about your desires. You can re-channel much of your
sexual energy into making money and/or seeking power. You
can easily have extended periods of celibacy. You are a
passionate, compassionate, sexual lover, requiring the same
qualities from your mate. Sex is serious business; thus you
demand intensity and diversity, and are willing to try
anything or anyone. Sometimes your passions turn to
possessiveness, which must be kept in check.

-P-
You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn't
think of doing anything that might harm your image or
reputation. Appearances count, therefore, you require a
good-looking partner.You also require an intelligent
partner. Oddly enough, you may view your partner as your
enemy; A good fight stimulates those sex vibes. You are
relatively free of sexual hang-ups. You are willing to
experiment and try new ways of doing things. You are very
social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and need a good deal
of physical gratification.

-Q-
You require constant activity and stimulation. You have
tremendous physical energy. It is not easy for a partner to
keep up with you, sexually or otherwise. You are an
enthusiastic lover and tend to be attracted to people of
other ethnic groups. You need romance, hearts and flowers,
and lots of conversation to turn you on and keep you going.

-R-
You are a no-nonsense, action-oriented individual. You need
someone who can keep pace with you and who is your
intellectual equal the smarter the better. You are turned on
more quickly by a great mind than by a great body. However,
physical attractiveness is very important to you. You have
to be proud of your partner. You are privately very sexy,
but you do not brag, you are willing to serve as teacher.
Sex is important; you can be a very demanding playmate.

-S-
You are secretive, self-contained, and shy. You are very
sexy, sensual, and passionate, but you do not let on to
this.Only in intimate privacy will this part of your nature
reveal itself. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you
are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade,
can play any role or any game, and take your love life very
seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to
wait for the right person to come along.

-T-
You are very sensitive, private, and sexually passive; you
like a partner who takes the lead. Music, soft lights and
romantic thoughts turn you on. You fantasize, but do not
tend to fall in and out of love easily. When in love,y ou
are romantic, idealistic, mushy, and extremely intense.You
enjoy having your senses and your feelings stimulated,
titillated, and teased. You are a great flirt. You can make
your relationships fit your dreams, oftentimes all in your
own head.

-U-
You are enthusiastic and idealistic when in love. When not
in love, you are in love with love, always looking for
someone to adore. You see romance as a challenge. You are a
roamer and need adventure, excitement, and freedom. You deal
in potential relationships. You enjoy giving gifts and enjoy
seeing your mate looking good. Your sex drive is strong and
you desire instant ratification. You are willing to put your
partner's pleasures above your own.

-V-
You are individualistic, and you need freedom, space, and
excitement. You wait until you know someone well before
committing yourself. Knowing someone means psychingh im out.
You feel a need to get into his head to see what makes him
tick. You are attracted to encentric types. Often there is
an age difference between you and your lover. You respond to< /FONT>
danger, thrills, and suspense. The gay scene turns you on,
even though you yourself may not be a participant.

-W-
You are very proud, determined, and you refuse to take no
for an answer when pursuing love. Your ego is at stake. You
are romantic, idealistic, and often in love withl ove
itself, not seeing your partner as he or she really is. You
feel deeply and throw all of yourself into your
relationships. Nothing is too good for your lover. You enjoy
playing love games.

-X-
You need constant stimulation because you bore quickly. You
can handle more than one relationship at a time with ease.
You can't shut off your mind. You talk while you makel ove.
You can have the greatest love affairs,all by yourself, in
your own head.

-Y-
You are sexual, sensual, and very independent. If you can't
have it your way, you will forgot the whole thing. You want
to control your relationships, which doesn't always work out
too well. You respond to physical stimulation, enjoy necking
and spending hours just touching, feeling and exploring.
However, if you can spend your time making money, you will< /B>
give up the pleasures of the flesh for the moment. You need
to prove to yourself and your partner what a great lover you
are. You want feedback on your performance. You are an open,
stimulating,romantic.

-Z-

Sorry Folks!!! This one probably got truncated when was originally sent to me or the people who conducted the studies knew better than revealing anything about this identity.(My apologies to the members of ZZ Top)

The Big Keyboard Shortcuts List

GENERAL SHORTCUTS
ALT- F4 - Quit a program / Shut down
ALT-TAB - Hold down the ALT key and hit tab to cycle through open windows.
CTL-ESCAPE - Display the Start menu
SHIFT - TAB - tab backwards through a form
CTRL - X - Cut
CTRL - C - Copy
CTRL - V - Paste
F1 - Help menu
CTRL - Z - Undo
SHIFT & Restart - To restart just windows and not your whole computer, hold down the shift key when you click the OK button on the shutdown screen. Saves lots of time. (not for XP)
CRTL-TAB - Navigate tabs on a tabbed screen


FILE & DESKTOP SHORTCUTS
Hold SHIFT while inserting a CD - Prevents the CD from "autorunning"
If an item is selected:
CTRL while dragging a file - Copies the file
CTRL - SHIFT while dragging a file - Creates a shortcut to the file
SHIFT - DELETE - Deletes an item without sending it to the recycle bin.
ALT-ENTER - Display a file's properties.
F2 - To rename the file

In Windows Explorer:
LEFT ARROW - Collapse the current selection if it is expanded
NUM LOCK-MINUS SIGN (-) - Collapse the selected folder
RIGHT ARROW - Expand the current selection if it is collapsed -Or- Select the first subfolder
NUM LOCK- * Expand all folders below the current selection
NUM LOCK- PLUS SIGN (+) - Expand the selected folder
F6 - Switch between left and right panes

In My Computer:
BACKSPACE - View the folder one level up
ALT- RIGHT ARROW - Move forward to a previous view
ALT- LEFT ARROW -Move backward to a previous view

INTERNET BROWSER SHORTCUTS
For Internet Explorer 6 and Netscape 7 (may work in older versions)
Open History Window Ctrl+H
Reload Ctrl+R
Back (Previous Page) Alt+Left Arrow or Alt+Backspace
Forward (Next Page) Alt+Right Arrow
Stop Esc
Home Alt+Home
Go to Bottom of Page End
Go to Top of Page Home
New Window Ctrl+N
Close WIndow Ctrl+W
Go Up one Line Up Arrow
Go Down One Line Down Arrow
Full Screen (toggle) F11
Find on Page Ctrl+F
Add Current Page to Favorites Ctrl+D
Print Current Page or Active Frame Ctrl+P
Organize Favorites (IE)/
Manage Bookmarks (NS) Ctrl+B
Maximize a Window Alt+Space+x
Minimize a window Alt+Space+N
Scroll page up Alt+Up Arrow
Scroll page down Alt+Down Arrow

Internet Explorer ONLY
Open Favorites Bar Ctrl+I
Select text in address bar Alt+D
Force Reload (not from cache) Ctrl+F5
A faster way to type in addresses with IE is to just type in the name of the site:worldstart
and hit CTRL + Enter. The "http://www. " and ".com" will be added for you!

Netscape ONLY
Open / Close Sidebar Panel (toggle) F9
Select text in Location Bar Ctrl+L
Force Reload (not from Cache) Ctrl+Shift+R
Zoom Text Smaller Ctrl+- (minus)
Zoom text larger Ctrl+= (plus sign)


WINDOWS KEY SHORTCUTS
The Windows key can be used in conjunction with other keys to act as a keyboard shortcut for faster access to menu commands. Now, while the Alt key tends to open program menus (ex: Alt+F opens the File menu and Alt+E opens the Edit menu) and the Ctrl key performs actual operations (ex: Ctrl+C will copy and Ctrl+V will paste), the Windows key will open various Windows tools...

Win key + R will open the Start menu's Run box
Win key + F will open the Start menu's Find window
Win key + E will quickly launch Explorer
Win key + Pause/Break will open the System Properties window
Win key + M will Minimize all windows
Win key + Shift + M will undo Minimize all windows
Win key + D will switch between minimizing all open programs and showing them all
Win key + Tab will cycle through items on the taskbar
Win key by itself will open the Start menu
You can also open programs or folders on your desktop by pressing the Windows key + the first letter of the program/folder/shortcut + Enter . Sounds kinda tedious, but if you're in a bind with your mouse, it can come in quite handy.

ARROW TRICKS
Here's a cool little arrow trick to try with word processing programs. Next time you're using your arrow keys to go from one area of a sentence to another (left and right arrows), hold down your CTRL key. Instead of moving one space at a time, you'll go one word at a time.
If you're using the up and down arrows to go from line to line, holding down the CTRL key will make your cursor jump from paragraph to paragraph (well, from carriage return to carriage return anyway).
One last thing, if you hold down the SHIFT key while you do this (i.e. hold down SHIFT + CTRL at the same time), you select text as you arrow along.
I've tested this in MS Word and Wordpad, but it *should* work no matter what word processing program you use.

HOME / END KEY FUN
Do you ever find yourself scrolling through a huge folder ? Well, if you need to get to the beginning or the end quickly, just press Ctrl+Home . If you want to get to the end, click Ctrl+End.